Have you ever wake up in the morning and looked in the mirror and said to yourself that “I am beautiful” ? Not because you think you are good looking, but because you truly mean it, you truly understand what’s the real beauty means. You really believe that you are such an amazing creature and God has given you this beautiful life where nobody is like you.
You have your own identity and you are different than every person in this entire universe. Isn’t this wonderful? So why is that many people have problems with themselves? Why don’t they like themselves the way they are?
Nowadays people are just so willing to become like others that they don’t even realize that they are gradually losing their own identity, their own self. I know there are so many awesome people in the world and sometimes things just pop up in our head that why I am not like them or maybe why I am not as happy as them? And the list just goes on and on.
We are just not able to get that equanimity and satisfaction in our lives, no matter how hard we keep on trying. To get that inner peace the very first thing you need to do is to accept yourself the way you are. If people truly love you they will also accept you the way you are.
Never let anybody tell you that you are not good enough and you are not worthy of anything. Because everyone deserves to be happy and being loved. Before falling in love with other person, first you must fell in love with yourself because than only you’re gonna truly love that other person. Let others do what they are doing, it’s their life and don’t get disheartened because you think they are better than you.
Have a clear vision in your head about where you want to see yourself one day and work day and night to reach there. Explore yourself and be the best version of yourself rather than having a dream of becoming like someone else.
It’s ok to learn from others and taking some things out of them which will help you in becoming a better human being. But, never try to change yourself for others. If the change is for your good, then it’s totally fine but you must never lose that inner soul of yours which is so unique, so pure and different than everyone.
Always be yourself, maybe some people don’t like you but trust me it’s much better than a fake person who just pretends to be a good one. Start living for yourself and loving yourself.